History, Foundation, & Morals

THE HEART OF KANDIXCHANGE

HISTORY & FOUNDATION

KandiXchange started from a really personal place — not as a business idea, but as something I felt in my heart.

My first real EDM show changed everything for me. It was my first time hearing the music live and being part of the community I had only ever seen online. That night, I met someone in the crowd — we flowed together, had a really sweet and genuine conversation, and ended up connecting on social media. And it stuck with me.

Months later, I found out that same person was going through something really similar to what I had been through in my own life. So I put together a small PLURR package and sent it to her — not for any reason other than wanting to let her know someone out there understood, and cared. I didn’t realize it at the time, but that one small act of kindness changed everything for me.

That’s when the idea for KandiXchange came to life. I thought: what if more people could experience this — the feeling of being seen, understood, and supported — even when there’s no show, no crowd, no lights?

So I hosted a Secret Santa-style kandi exchange in December. I thought maybe 20 or 30 people would sign up. Instead, 268 joined. That’s when I knew there was something special here — that other people were craving this kind of connection too.

Since then, KandiXchange has grown into a nationwide monthly exchange, with thousands of trades sent all over the country. But no matter how big it gets, the heart of it stays the same: it’s about showing up for each other. It’s about turning creativity and kindness into connection. And it all started with one conversation, one package, and one reminder that the smallest gestures really can make a difference.

With Lots of Love & Big Hugs,

Victoria Mae

WHAT WE BELIEVE

KandiXchange is rooted in PLURR: Peace, Love, Unity, Respect, and Responsibility. Each of our pillars shows up in how we operate:

We create a safe and inclusive, judgement free environment. Racism, sexism, homophobia, or any form of hate is not tolerated here.

Every package is a chance to remind someone that they are cared for and creatively celebrated.

We welcome ravers, crafters, neurodivergent folks, baby ravers, veterans, sober participants, and more — every walk of life belongs here.

We respect your time, boundaries, creativity, and emotional labor — and ask that you do the same for your match.

We show up, we communicate, and we own our actions — even when things get hard.

WHY WE EXIST

We’re more than just a trade.

We are:

A community builder in the EDM world — bringing people together between the shows, between the sets, and between the seasons.

A creative outlet for artists, crafters, and lovers of PLURR who want to share what they make with people who genuinely appreciate it.

A safe space for anyone who feels isolated or unseen — especially in the quiet moments when the music isn’t playing.

A connection hub for those who want to feel valued, understood, and part of something bigger than themselves.

A reminder that kindness doesn’t need a stage, a festival pass, or the perfect moment — it just needs intention.

KandiXchange exists to keep the spirit of the community alive all year long.

To create meaningful connections.

To show people that they’re never alone — no matter where they are or what they’re going through.

WHAT MAKES US DIFFERENT

We’re not a subscription box.

We’re not a merch drop.

We’re not just another rave brand.

KandiXchange is built on people — not products. Every part of what we do is centered around real connection, creativity, and care.

Here’s what sets us apart:

Intentionality comes first.

Every exchange is rooted in thoughtfulness — not profit. From the way matches are made to the packages created, it’s all about meaning over materials.

We’re community-led, not algorithm-driven.

We don’t chase trends or numbers. We build around real people, real experiences, and real conversations.

You don’t need to be at a festival to feel the love.

This is for the in-between moments. The days between shows. The times when you’re feeling disconnected. KandiXchange exists to remind you that you’re still part of something — always.

It’s not about perfection.

You don’t need to be a professional artist, a kandi veteran, or have a big platform. All you need is heart. This is a space where effort and care matter more than aesthetics.

We’re rooted in PLURR, not just in name — but in action.

Peace, Love, Unity, Respect, and Responsibility guide every decision we make. We’re not just here to say it — we’re here to keep PLURR alive.

We don’t just connect packages.

We connect people — with purpose.

HOW TO GET INVOLVED

Partner With Us

Are you a small business, artist, or festival brand that vibes with our mission?

Let’s collaborate.

KandiXchange is all about connection, creativity, and community — and we love partnering with people and brands who live by those same values. Whether you're an artist who makes handmade goods, a vendor with a heart for the scene, or a brand looking to support something meaningful, we’d love to work together.

Partnership opportunities include:

  • Giveaway collaborations
  • Custom beads or merch co-creations
  • Festival activations
  • Cross-promotion on socials, emails, and more

    If you're all about uplifting others, spreading joy, and being part of something real — let’s connect!

    Reach out: kandixchange@gmail.com

Be a Kandi Angel

Sometimes packages get lost. Sometimes life gets in the way. And sometimes someone in our community ends up without a match.

That’s where Kandi Angels come in.

Kandi Angels volunteer to step in and send a PLURR package to someone who didn’t receive theirs. It’s a simple way to keep the love alive — and make sure no one feels left out.

If you have a little extra time, a few extra beads, or just a big heart, join the Angel List and help us take care of our community when it needs it most.

Sign up to be an Angel: Kandi Angel Sign-Up